How A Founder Built a Dress Rental Startup, Raise $1M+, and Pivoted From Burnout To Mentorship

In this conversation, Andi sits down with founder and mentor Emily McDonald to unpack the real story behind building and scaling a seven-figure company, raising over a million in venture capital, hitting full-body burnout, and redefining success on her own terms. From pre–Rent the Runway dress rentals to panic attacks in inventory closets, Emily shares the unpolished, practical side of entrepreneurship—and what it looks like to build a business that supports your life instead of consuming it.

Andi and Emily Share:

  • The origin story of The Stylist LA, a dress rental company built from Emily’s living room that grew into a multi-location, seven-figure brand.

  • How a single “perfect storm” collab with The Bachelor cast radically accelerated growth—and what most founders miss about timing and opportunity.

  • The behind-the-scenes reality of raising venture capital as a female founder (150+ nos, constant fundraising, and pressure to scale fast).

  • The burnout breaking point: a pregnancy, a delayed wire from a lead investor, a panic attack in the inventory closet, and the moment Emily realized she couldn’t keep running on fumes.

  • Why she now mentors female founders to build businesses that are aligned with the lives they actually want to live—not just revenue screenshots.

  • The myths around six- and seven-figure businesses, and why hitting a number doesn’t magically create self-worth or stability.

  • The business foundations formula Emily uses to help founders move from “stuck at 5k” to consistent, sustainable growth.

  • When raising money makes sense (and when it doesn’t), plus the mindset shift every founder needs before pitching investors.

  • A real-time case study from Andi’s new beauty brand Casa Noon—burning down the wrong manufacturing partnership, self-funding six figures, and deciding when it’s finally the right time to fundraise.

  • Why in-person events and small, intentional rooms are becoming one of the most powerful (and overlooked) growth levers for founder-led brands.

The Business-That-Serves-Your-Life Framework

This episode surfaces a simple but often ignored framework for how to build a business that doesn’t quietly burn you out.

1. Separate the business from your identity
Treat the business as its own entity—not a direct mirror of your worth.

  • Open a dedicated business bank account, even if you’re starting with a single dollar.

  • Let the business hold the revenue goals (100k, 1M) instead of forcing your nervous system to carry it all.

  • Your job: become the person who can lead that entity, not fuse your self-esteem to every sales spike or dip.

2. Build foundations before you chase more “visibility”
Emily’s foundations formula covers:

  • Who: Deep psychographic understanding of your customer—not just demographics.

  • What: Clear, cohesive offers that make sense together and solve specific problems.

  • Why you: A sharp point of view and a clear reason someone would choose you over anyone else.

  • Numbers: Pricing, margins, revenue targets, and realistic capacity.

  • Growth: Where your leads are actually coming from (and how to double down).

  • Mindset: Your ability to stay committed when results dip, shift, or stall.

3. Drop the shiny-object strategy cycle

  • Stop scrapping offers after one “meh” launch.

  • Give strategies enough runway to work before pivoting.

  • Look for consistency and iteration, not constant reinvention.

4. Decide how money fits into the life you want

  • Revenue goals without life goals just recreate corporate pressure with new branding.

  • Ask: What kind of founder do I want to be day-to-day, and what would this business need to look like to support that?

Cult-Brand Founder Moves to Steal

Even though this episode isn’t strictly about cult branding, it’s full of decisions that create long-term loyalty and trust:

  • Intimate, niche positioning over mass market
    The Stylist LA chose cool-girl, West Coast brands and sorority partnerships instead of chasing everyone. Niche focus made the business memorable and referable.

  • Hyper-specific early traction plays
    Emily scaled by serving sororities at USC, UCLA, and LMU—100+ women in one room needing dresses for the same events. Simple, concentrated distribution that most founders overlook while they try to “go viral.”

  • Transparent money conversations
    Emily now shares monthly revenue updates in her Beehiv newsletter so founders see the real numbers instead of aspirational screenshots. Transparency builds trust far faster than curated wins.

  • Burn-it-down integrity moves
    Andi’s Casa Noon story—walking away from a misaligned manufacturing partner after investing heavily and having to rebuild—signals long-term brand integrity. Consumers can feel when a founder chooses quality and alignment over speed.

Founders to Watch

If you want to see the future of founder-led brands in action, keep an eye on:

  • Jess, founder of Scene Shopping
    A new platform blending AI and human styling to deliver “world-class stylist” support at an accessible price point. It’s a glimpse of how fashion, personalization, and tech are converging in a way that actually prioritizes the customer’s real life, not just trends.

Trends We’re Seeing in the Female Founder Space

  • Money talk is getting more honest
    Founders are finally sharing missed targets, flat months, and revenue dips—instead of pretending growth is always linear. That honesty is starting to replace the “constant win” highlight reel.

  • An entrepreneurship exodus (and that’s okay)
    Not everyone wants—or needs—to be a founder forever. Emily predicts a wave of women choosing more sustainable paths, and sees that as a healthy correction, not a failure.

  • In-person rooms as the new growth channel
    Intimate lunches, retreats, and small-group masterminds aren’t just “nice to have.” They’re turning into serious growth drivers, deepening community, and generating higher-quality referrals than algorithm-chasing content ever could.

Ways to Go Deeper with Oui, We Studio

If this conversation landed, here are a few ways to explore this work more deeply with Andi and her world:

  • Out of Office Club — A low-cost membership for founders who want monthly brand-building challenges, community, and behind-the-scenes access to Andi’s multi-business journey.

  • Mastermind and Mentorship Containers — Higher-touch strategy support for founders who are scaling, pivoting, or fundraising and want eyes on their messaging, offers, and growth plan.

  • Casa Noon Updates — Sign up for early access to Casa Noon, Andi’s sun-drenched, hydration-first beauty brand, and watch a physical product company being built in real time.

The Real Story Behind the Highlight Reel

From the outside, The Stylist LA looked like the fantasy founder story.

Retail stores in LA and San Francisco. National shipping. Dresses on Bachelor alums. Features in People and Us Weekly. A seven-figure revenue run and over a million raised in venture capital.

But behind the aesthetics was a rental model that was capital-intensive and logistically demanding. Dresses had to be returned, inspected, cleaned, and turned around in days for high-stakes events. Cash was always tight. Fundraising became a constant job in itself.

The breaking point came in the inventory closet. Emily was pregnant with her first child, payroll was looming, and a lead investor’s promised wire kept getting delayed: “next week,” “soon,” “it’s coming.” The numbers weren’t lining up. The responsibility for employees, investors, and customers all sat on her shoulders.

That panic attack in the stockroom became a line in the sand: she would not keep building success that cost her health, sanity, and identity.

That’s the part we rarely see in the glossy founder narrative.

When Your Business Stops Serving Your Life

Both Emily and Andi share a similar realization: at some point, the business has to serve the life you actually want, not the other way around.

For Emily, that meant hiring her first coach, admitting how burned out she was, and eventually shifting from running a high-pressure rental brand to mentoring female founders. The goal: help women build companies that are ambitious and financially strong—but not built on self-erasure and constant emergency.

For Andi, that shift looked like dismantling a successful education product, The Unschool. Not because she couldn’t sell it, but because keeping it alive required constant, high-intensity lead gen and “performing” for the algorithm at a level that didn’t match where she was going as a multi-business founder and beauty brand CEO.

The solution wasn’t to burn it all. It was to re-architect:

  • Move The Unschool content into Out of Office Club.

  • Offer single, low-cost modules behind paywalls for members who want a specific skill.

  • Focus publicly on community, long-term brand building, and Casa Noon—so investors and future partners see the founder she is today, not just a funnel.

The lesson: it’s not always about squeezing every last dollar out of an existing offer. Sometimes the more strategic move is to restructure so the business model matches your next chapter, not your last one.

The Truth About Six- and Seven-Figure Businesses

There’s a myth that once you cross a certain revenue threshold—5k months, 10k months, six figures, seven figures—you finally “arrive.”

Emily dismantles that idea quickly:

  • It’s not easy. It can feel more easeful when aligned, but the work is real.

  • It’s not quick. Most overnight successes are a decade deep.

  • It’s not permanent. Revenue spikes and dips. Economies shift. Algorithms change. Personal life happens.

And the most important piece:
If you don’t feel worthy or grounded at 5k months, you won’t magically feel worthy at 100k months.

The number in the Stripe account doesn’t resolve impostor syndrome, heal old money stories, or make you feel safe being visible. Those are separate muscles you build over time—through support, nervous system work, and honest reflection.

Foundations Before Fancy

When founders come to Emily stuck at a revenue plateau—especially around the 5k–10k range—she almost always starts in the same place: foundations.

Most people want the advanced strategy. The funnel tweak, the new offer, the viral hook. But in practice, the issues are usually basic and fixable:

  • They don’t deeply understand their customer’s inner world.

  • Their suite of offers doesn’t make sense as a clear path.

  • They haven’t articulated why someone should choose them specifically.

  • Their pricing and capacity don’t line up with their goals.

  • They keep abandoning strategies before they have enough data to know what’s working.

The foundations can feel “unsexy,” but they’re the reason some founders turn a single offer into a reliable income stream while others keep rebuilding from scratch every quarter.

Are You Actually Ready to Raise Capital?

Very few founders need to raise outside money.

Raising capital makes sense if:

  • You are building something that truly requires significant upfront investment (like a product-heavy brand, tech platform, or inventory-heavy model).

  • You’re chasing a time-sensitive opportunity and speed to market matters.

  • You are aiming for scale that goes far beyond a lifestyle business.

And if you do raise, you’re raising to build something new or scale in a material way—not to keep the current operations on life support.

Why In-Person Rooms Still Matter

Both Emily and Andi are leaning back into in-person experiences—small events, retreats, content weekends, and intimate workshops.

They’re not the main profit center. Done well, they’re often low-margin. But the ROI shows up in other ways:

  • Higher-quality referrals and collaborations.

  • Stronger relationships with the people most invested in your work.

  • Clearer insight into what your audience actually needs, which then informs content, offers, and positioning.

In a landscape that has over-indexed on Reels and reach, there’s something powerful about being in the room. You become a real person, not just a grid post.

Takeaways:

  • Your business is an entity you lead—not proof of your worth.

  • Six- and seven-figure milestones don’t eliminate fear, doubt, or dips.

  • Foundations will move you further than another “hot” tactic.

  • Very few businesses truly need outside capital—and if you do raise, you’re raising to build, not to bandage.

  • Burnout is data. You’re allowed to restructure, dismantle, or rebuild.

  • In-person rooms create a kind of trust and momentum that the algorithm can’t.

  • The earlier you put yourself in rooms with people who are ahead of you, the faster you grow.

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Andi Eaton Alleman

Andi Eaton is a creative director, author, entrepreneur, and cultural influencer in a variety of media. She produces Oui We (ouiwegirl.com) the modern bohemian's guide to everything from travel and style to beauty and holistic wellness. Andi and her projects have been featured on Domino, Glitter Guide, A Beautiful Mess, Southern Living, SELF, Hello Giggles, Refinery 29, WWD, Elle Canada and more; in 2017 she wrapped a year of road tripping throughout the U.S. photographing and documenting travel, style and culture stories available in her new book: "Wanderful: The Modern Bohemian's Guide to Traveling in Style".

https://www.ouiwegirl.com/
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